Remember when you could predict what was holding you back? Your teeth were not white enough, your skin not tan enough, your skills not good enough, or your car not fast enough. These seemed to be the major things that were holding us back. But trying to predict the things that will hold you back in the 21st century is about as easy as predicting when the cubs will win the world series. (FYI: Never)
The creative blocks that 20 somethings face look different then what writers, musicians, pastors, or artist face. Most 20 somethings don’t even know what category to put themselves into let alone what creative block they are facing. Instead, 20 somethings face gigantic creative mountain blocks that only gets bigger the more we dream and desire. With all the different set backs 20 Somethings face in today’s society (poor job market, me syndrome, debt, no direct) the creative block that sits in front of us all is enough to force anyone to give up and go home. But every 20 something can move past creative blocks by trusting in the future.
It was a normal day for every car on interstate 64, well almost every car. My car was a bit more special then anyone else. It was late October and I was on my way to Nashville in my 1998 Ford Ranger. Loaded down with everything I owned in my truck bed, I was setting out on an adventure that had no outcome. I was moving. I had a lot of time to think as I drove that long and boring interstate. I had flashbacks to when I was a kid sitting on a school bus headed to school. In those moments all I could think about was how much I wished I was the adult in the car next to me or the person sitting outside on their front porch. I wanted to be anyone but me in that moment. And as I was snapped back to reality from the lady on the GPS telling me to veer left, I was faced with a decision. This spot of the highway was where highway 64 and 57 merged. The temptation was to exit at the Mt Vernon exit. You see that is not the way to Nashville, the Mt Vernon exit is where my grandparents live. It could be my exit plan, my chance to do anything but move to Nashville. As the exit grew closer and my heart started to race, I was faced with all kinds of decisions. Decisions that would greatly affect my future, my plans, and my development. My creative mountain was getting over the fear that I did not know what was to come next.
You might be like me, scared to death of what is to come next. Or maybe you know where you are going but have no clue how to get there. We all face different creative blocks. But there is one creative block that we all face. This creative block is more like a creative mountain that we will face (and continue to face) everyday. And that creative mountain is ourselves. As Steven Pressfield calls this mountain, “the resistance“. The resistance is ourselves. It will always be ourselves. But instead of moving beyond this we get tripped up because we are looking to external detractors rather then ourselves. Understanding that we are single handily the greatest barrier and yet solution to our creative block could be the very thing we need to hear and understand.
But, why see this in such a negative way? You are not reading this to walk awaydepressed. There are inspiring stories out there that show us it is possible to move past resistance and creative blocks. Stories of such great people like Oprah, who was fired many times in her 20’s for being viewed as “unfit for tv” but later went on to be one of the most iconic women of all time. Or Henry Ford who failed numerous business that left him broke only to later go on and start the biggest car manufacture of its time. Or how about blog post like this one from Seth Godin about How to Fail or a manifesto for 2o somethings from Edward Paz. There are tons of stories out there that inspire us to tackle these mountains more like speed bumps in the road of life.
Here are three things that can help you when you face creative blocks/mountains as a 20 something:
1. See The Big Picture
Seeing the bigger picture will keep you focused. It will help you realize that this is much bigger then you and the moment. Realizing that no one is meant to accomplish everything by the age of 25 can be the very thing that can help you get out of bed in the morning. It is important to keep reminders of what is to come and the hard work that it will take to get there. Understanding the big picture will help move past the no’s, set backs, and frustrations that are to be ahead of you.
2. Never Stopping
What is the best way to finish a race? Never stop running. Sounds simple, but anyone that has run any sort of race understands just how hard it can be. But life as a 20 something often is more like a marathon then a spring. And understanding that little set backs are not enough to stop you from moving forward can be the very thing that gets you to the next mile marker. Being able to make an agreement with yourself that nothing will hold you back from pursuing the future is the very thing that can help you in the present.
3. Give Up
This seems so elementary and yet I feel like most never grasp the truth found inside. When you quit you cannot go forward, all you can do is go backwards. So giving up the marathon will do exactly what you are looking to do…quit. We have to give up giving up. Ya that is grammatically correct. We have to decide that we are not going to give up but in fact remove the word quit from our vocabulary. The scary thing is most will quit by the age of 25 and relegate their life to hating their job, feeling like they are missing out, and never being apart of something bigger then themselves. All of that because they decided that the fight, the marathon, was not worth them pushing forward and giving up giving up.
20 Somethings will change the world. Never before has a generation had more technology, opportunity, and ability then 20 somethings do today. Yes, 20 somethings will change the world, everyone is waiting to see which direction it will change. What do you say? How about we change the world?
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