Comments on: Twitter Follow Strategy

By: Kyle Reed

Kyle Reed — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:46:24 +0000

Yes, you are right, it is temporary and God has provided beyond belief.
Thanks for the encouragement.

By: jskogerboe

jskogerboe — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:41:31 +0000

Lack of money… I feel your pain. :-) Thankfully that's a temporary problem. You're smart. God's your advocate. You best days are ahead, brother.

By: Kyle Reed

Kyle Reed — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 14:42:18 +0000

Good stuff there.
I have been working on taking a sabbath once a week, usually on Saturday or Sunday.
I have not completely unplugged, but I do hardly anything except for check email once and look at twitter on my phone a couple of times. Usually though, my computer is turned off.

And the breaking of bread thing is great.
I try to do this as much as I can.
The problem for me is that I have no money (I do not have a paying job) and so it is hard for me to get out and go to lunch but I can still have others over to the house.
Good perspective and advice though. Thanks.

By: jackalopekid

jackalopekid — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 08:13:40 +0000

dang

By: @jskogerboe

@jskogerboe — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:53:00 +0000

A good friend of mine has adopted these two rules of thumb for keeping Social Media involvement healthy and well balanced. (1) Take a regular tech "Sabbath." Once a week, unplug. It helps keep your online life in perspective, and it keeps you in the "master" position over the online community and the response of the community (which can become an addictive ego-builder that puts us out of sync with our God-given worth.) And (2), break bread together. Significant relationship building happens over meals. It's biblical. And if you intentionally make regular time in your schedule to be eating with other brothers and sisters (and lost souls and family and needy people and mentors and…), then you have some measurable degree of BALANCE on your media/live relationship spectrum.

Interesting guys. Thanks for the conversation.

-joshua

By: @jskogerboe

@jskogerboe — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:52:19 +0000

To both Joshua and Kyle regarding your interaction above… thanks for your honesty. It's one of those times when I can see this from both sides of the coin. Joshua, your caution is good for all of us involved in Social Media. If we spend an "unhealthy" amount of time building up social networks, we can shortchange real life relationships. However, I understand Kyle's response. The two are NOT mutually exclusive. Self discipline and BALANCE are required, and the Holy Spirit gives us what we need in the self-discipline department… And the Church gives us feedback by way of wise counsel. (continued…)

By: Kyle Reed

Kyle Reed — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 05:03:42 +0000

I had to let my response sit for a bit there. Partially just because I think what you are calling me out on is an assumption that is just not true. In regards to getting out in meeting people I have indeed done that and have continued to pursue relationships in this area.
I understand what you are saying, but I think you misunderstood why I was bring this up. I am strictly talking just about online community and communication. And really in all honesty some of these online friends have turned into face to face conversations, I actually met with a guy last week and we met through twitter.

I feel it very necessary to connect with people over twitter because that is a way for me to spread my network not just in STL but over the US. No I am not going to meet everyone. But I do hope to get to meet and talk with some of my new followers down the road when i have a chance to do a lot more traveling.

By: joshuahunt

joshuahunt — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 04:26:31 +0000

How do you think your life would be different if you decided to meet 100 new people in person over a month's time instead of trying to add 100 "followers" on a social media site? Get out from behind your computer and meet people face-to-face.

How fruitful will the relationships be with 100 new "friends" via Twitter every month?
Yes, you may 'talk' to 100 new people each month, but how much more fruitful could a face-to-face relationship be with just one person vs. the 100's that you'll never see light touch their skin? I mean, sure, you may have some networking or some interaction on your blog with a few people, but at the end of the day, what have you truly accomplished? So you can 'tweet' with people who you aren't able to talk to face-to-face because they live 100's of miles away…big deal!

I would take one single personal relationship that is face-to-face over 1 million twitter followers any day.

Over the next year, you are setting a goal of gaining 1200 new "friends" who you may never have a face-to-face conversation with. Yes, twitter can be a great social media tool to use and learn from, but I honestly want to call you out…I love ya man, but your social media habits have seemed a bit ridiculous.

By: Kyle Reed

Kyle Reed — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 03:44:16 +0000

Been very successful. Over the last month I have grown to about 50 more views a day and I think a lot of that comes from twitter friends.
Needless to say, if people do not know about you then they are not going to know about your blog.

By: Kyle Reed

Kyle Reed — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:56:42 +0000

I think business should follow the idea that they are trying to help others out with their product. Not just following people to have followers.

Now that is what they should do, but most of them just follow you because you mentioned something close to what they sell. I get very annoyed by this and do not pay attention to them. But if I tweet something out that I am looking for an answer about or something relating to their product then i would love for them to @ reply me and let me choose to follow them.

I go at it the same way. I want to find people that are having the same discussion that I am and then see what can come from that. Not just adding a bunch of people to get more followers and send them spam by telling them to go to my blog.